Know yourselves sexually. Deepen trust. Rebuild lust.
A complete private sexual-growth studio for two adults: map desire, sexuality and orientation; explore monogamy or consensual non-monogamy; understand pornography preferences; strengthen emotional connection; and build lust without pressure.
This is not the official Erotic Blueprint quiz, is not affiliated with Jaiya, and is not a diagnostic or psychosexual treatment tool. It cannot establish consent: consent is a live, specific and reversible choice each time.
Create a pressure-free session.
Each person completes their own modules privately. Only shared comparisons are shown after both partners choose to reveal them.
Build your profiles separately.
The five-route questionnaire is the core. Eight deeper modules explore desire, sexuality, relationship structure, involving others, erotic media, growth priorities and your own words.
Dip in and out safely
Make it easier to reopen
This package is installable as a home-screen web app when served from a private HTTPS address. The single HTML file still works offline in a full browser and remembers progress on the same device.
Important privacy note
Saved answers are ordinary browser data, not encrypted. Use the privacy curtain, device lock and encrypted backup. Delete the session when finished on a shared device.
Describe who you are sexually today.
Write as much or as little as you choose. Each response has its own sharing switch. Unshared writing stays out of the couples report.
Module complete
Your answers have been saved privately.
Ready to compare?
How are you today?
This is a temperature check, not consent or a promise. Choose what is true now.
Openness to sexual connection today
Forms of connection that may feel welcome
Choose any that fit. They still need a live check-in later.
Your intimacy map, side by side.
Use this as a map, not a verdict. The aim is to understand what supports each person’s interest, safety and pleasure, then create choices that are genuinely mutual.
Five possible routes to intimacy
These are relative preferences within each person, not percentiles, diagnoses or fixed identities. Close scores suggest a blended profile.
Translation cards
Desire context: accelerators and brakes
Interest is shaped by circumstances as well as preference. This section looks for conditions that help, hinder or affect you differently.
How each of you likes connection invited and declined
A respectful “not now” protects trust. It should never lead to persuasion, sulking, punishment or an expectation of later sex.
What you may enjoy watching, reading or hearing
This optional profile separates curiosity from consent and allows either person to keep an answer private. A shared interest is only a possible conversation, never permission or an expectation.
Build a shared pornography agreement
Discuss only what feels safe. The note below is shared, saved on this device and included in the shared summary export.
How each of you can become more sexually honest without feeling exposed
Reserved people can have rich sexual selves. This section identifies what makes disclosure easier, what triggers self-censorship, and how each partner should respond to vulnerability.
How each of you understands attraction and identity
This section reports only what each person chose to share. It never assigns an orientation or assumes that attraction, fantasy, behaviour and relationship structure are the same thing.
Who am I attracted to? What fantasies occur? What do I choose to do? What relationship agreement fits me? An answer in one area does not determine the others. Bisexuality, for example, neither requires non-monogamy nor equal attraction to every gender.
Monogamy, consensual non-monogamy and involving other adults
The purpose is honest exploration, not a vote that one partner can win. The most cautious current boundary governs. Fantasy or curiosity can remain valuable even when action is not mutually wanted.
Shared relationship-structure agreement builder
Completing this does not create consent or mean that you should open the relationship. It records your current understanding and a route back to safety.
What may deepen connection, desire and lust between you
Growth is broader than adding intensity. It can include emotional safety, anticipation, novelty, sexual skill, confidence, autonomy and the freedom to be honest.
Understand first; solve second.
Take turns. The listener reflects back what they heard before offering their own view. Pause if either person becomes flooded, defensive or pressured.
The first speaker describes their experience. The listener does not interrupt, defend or solve.
Plan one small, pressure-free experience.
Success means both people felt respected and free to continue, change direction or stop. It does not require intercourse, orgasm or any other outcome.
Today’s connection check-in
Each person checks in privately. The result reveals only shared possibilities and the safest common level; it never treats green as consent.
Your sexual identities, couple dynamic and growth pathway
This report distinguishes strengths, differences, protected boundaries and realistic next steps. It is descriptive rather than diagnostic, and it treats stretching as invitation rather than pressure.
Private personal reports
Each report includes that person’s complete answers, including items they kept out of the couples report. Make sure the device is in the correct person’s hands before downloading.
Know when a conversation tool is not enough.
Positive sexual health
World Health Organization overview of sexual health, wellbeing, safety and freedom from coercion.
WHO sexual healthConsent in England and Wales
Section 74 defines consent as agreement by choice, with freedom and capacity to choose.
Sexual Offences Act 2003Medical information
NHS guidance on possible causes of low libido and when to seek help.
NHS: loss of libidoSpecialist therapy
COSRT maintains professional standards and a directory of psychosexual and relationship therapists.
COSRTSexual health services
NHS sexual health services provide confidential STI testing, contraception and advice.
NHS sexual health servicesSexual and gender diversity
WHO guidance explains sexual orientation, gender diversity, health and human rights without assuming a fixed label.
WHO diversity guidanceEvidence note: the extended modules draw on established ideas that sexual response reflects both excitation and inhibition, that desire may be spontaneous or responsive, and that the quality of sexual communication matters. The pornography, sexuality, relationship-structure, readiness and erotic-growth questions are original reflection tools, not measures of health, orientation, compatibility or readiness for action. None of the questions or interpretations has been psychometrically validated.